What are you fearful of?   Is it a loss of independence, of financial security, is it someone's approval, loss of position, fear of making a mistake, fear of the unknown….the list is different for each of us.  Getting to know what you’re afraid of and your reaction when you’re fearful is critical to dealing with the situation.  Fear can paralyze you from moving forward.  The next time you feel stuck, and unable to adjust…jot down what you’re fearful of…dig deep, and be honest with yourself.   Next list how it makes you feel.  Make a conscience effort to adjust – and move through the fear.  You may just surprise yourself.