We all become fearful at times. Whether it’s the financial crisis, job interview, an adventure that puts you face to face with fear. How you face fear can be a life lesson that either aids you in troubled times or gives you the confidence when facing your fear.

You’ve graduated, you’ve earned the diploma that Mom and Dad said would really help you out – a necessity – and now – where are the jobs? Even when you have great self esteem looking for employment and finding the ‘right job’ can be defeating – no interviews, no offers, no hiring….how to break into the real world?

1. Do you expect flexibility from employees? But the company is rigid with policy and procedures.
2. Your company is described as ‘family’. Which title best describes it: Gossip Girl – 7th Heaven – Survivor – Father Knows Best?
3. When someone defines the role they play within the company…is it more about title or what they do and who they help?

Do you know when you shut down? Is it when you’re feeling not understood, is it the feeling of rejection, is it a self imposed feeling of inadequacy, or possibly when you’re tired or scared – or is it when you feel conflict coming or are in the midst of it?
Want to change your shut down behavior?